Until then, this is an interesting thing - life!
Concentration - a close look, seeing nothing around? - Is not an immersion, and in their world.
What is there in this unknown universe?
They say there is living the truth. To find her way.
Now, I think I'm doing the first conscious steps to the true values: Freedom, Beauty, Truth, and of course, love.
But this is not enough. There is one important condition. The desire to convince others of their truths, the desire to direct others towards their goals, the desire to make the lives of others in their desires - stupid, heartless and useless.
LII is usually silent.
Words do not have the truth.
But if he starts to speak, it is worth listening to ...
Thoughts - therefore I exist
Even in small children this type affects the surrounding non-children's seriousness and attentive, focused eyes.
I always think - when I eat, when I go, watch a movie, listen to music while chatting with someone about nothing, and even when I sleep. To think I do not get tired. Sometimes it's just a fantasy, or some fragments of thoughts, and sometimes stunning insights about the world, the universe in which we live.
Sometimes it seems that Leah is not so much live, knows how much life. His detachment from the outside world, its tacit perception of all that is happening around - only in order not to stir up their presence a real, objective picture of life. In his mind, he is building as a speculative model of the known universe to him, and on this basis is trying to find the global patterns of life.
And for that he needs facts, information, knowledge. The most important (and credible) source of knowledge for him - the book. Perhaps before all children learn to read and write this type. By the age of four, they are themselves able to read their favorite fairy tale in five - are trying to amend the Russian spelling ("If the letter" g "is read as" the same "then why in the name of" Jack "to write extra letter" e "- you can just" Zhnya "), and in six parents hide from them all the thick books to which they are attracted like a magnet (probably, by the logic of" the book is thicker, the smarter ").
In his youth, LII reads everything he gets his hands on - poetry, memoirs, books, history books, encyclopedias, women's magazines, biographies, science fiction and adventure books about science, old newspapers. May read the telephone directory. What's more - read the book several times.
He is able to easily find relevant information for themselves, by appearance of the book can be quite accurate to say whether or not to read it.
Due to the high speed of reading and a good memory are usually more erudite than peers, its logic and knowledge can sometimes stymie even an adult. However, parents should not loudly and clearly lay great hopes on him. It's annoying and it increases the sensitivity to failure, without which never do.
Man is born to be free
In general, the problems parents that child usually does not create but themselves - and being in a huge number! In unfavorable psychological situation can become doubtful, and develops into a soul-searching introspection. He was very afraid of potential trouble (often myself and invent). In fact, the trouble usually cope on their own. He does not like to ask for help, but can not wait that others can guess and suggest it.
The school LII is not difficult to learn from the top five. It is usually best to give exact and natural sciences.
Although they are often boring - it's not life.
For the Humanities, he somewhat dry and overly logical (and he's trying to bring them under the exact mathematical basis), and for success in the technical lacks practical vein, and patience.
Physical work strain FRI. Instead, he is coping very well with the monotonous work, which does not take his thoughts. While his hands are working in automatic mode, it is at this time engaged in more interesting occupation - thinks. Or just fantasizing. Or a combination of both.
He has a well-developed imagination. However, in situations requiring rapid response and decision-making can "retard." He's often the case that "good thinking comes afterward."
Often, analyzing the situation is past, I realize that things could be otherwise, tell me this or that. But - alas! All is over and can not change anything.
So usually tries to act so that was a little bit of time poraskinut brains.
Pretty insightful, his advanced logic allows him to see the real causes of events. Maybe with a sufficient degree of probability to calculate what the outcome of the situation. When planning a new business, it is best, perhaps, he sees the potential obstacles and "pitfalls", and the thought of lying in wait for his future troubles may discourage him anything at all to begin. He did not venturesome and does not like adventures.
LII is not always tells the others about his plans, stubbornly silent about the failures. But in general, even the closest people know very little about him.
Mistrustful, a heightened sense of insincerity or duplicity in others. But if someone is behaving aggressively and convincingly, hiding under the mask of deception truthfulness, LII will believe any nonsense - sincerity in a lie, he takes at face value.
Leah peculiar sense of humor - an intricate and paradoxical. Externally, it is expressed in the fact that it is often the most serious kind (and in this case he is a master) says buzz words obviously stupid. However, he rarely joked, because usually people take his words as seriously and, sometimes, are offended by them. Here LII, then it is sometimes necessary to explain that "it was a joke." Yet he does not know how to tell jokes, so it seems others "cracker" without the slightest sense of humor.
Not all heart - strangers
All matters relating to the relationship between people, for LII - the area of doubt and uncertainty of actions. Good attitude to any person at the FRI is expressed not so much feelings and emotions as practical care of his needs, the solution of its problems. He is experiencing some difficulties when trying to converge more closely with nonprofit man when he wants to make friends.
Loneliness of the hardest ... I hope that I will find friends at a target heart chose the path that I have chosen ...
Most often, his own efforts to cut ethical distance does not lead to anything good.
LII teenager often has serious problems with peers, it would be hard for them to be "his own man." Therefore, to walk in the street with other children does not like, preferring to stay at home in the community of the book. Friends are few silent, serious, all the experiences keeps to himself.
Growing up, in dealing with people struggling to be polite and considerate, be correct to absolutely everyone. But the "inward" still prefers not to let anybody. If in relation to him behave tactless, is unlikely to sort things out, just cut off from the unpleasant companion impregnable veil.
Psychological strain (family quarrels, all kinds of conflicts and the like) carries painful, so try to keep yourself within a restrained.
Does not like to clarify the relationship, no reticence, but you calmly and rationally try to dot the "i".
In conversations LII trying as soon as possible to avoid offensive expressions and comments: the fact that they produce on the interlocutor is usually far more impressive than he wanted. In other words, the observation that would have sounded innocent enough from the lips of most other people, is seen almost as an insult if it is expressed FRI.
That has him sometimes silently swallow petty grievances, because he realizes that his answer would be much stronger, and that's not fair.
If the environmental mistakenly take his patience for weakness and will abuse it, they risk eventually run into an unexpected and very sharp blow. Those who are "lucky" to get to the epicenter of this explosion will never be able to forget it.
And he LII also can not forget the state of the passion: for him it is horrifying and unnatural, as if at that moment he betrays himself. And yet, it will go to the end and would rather die than allow further humiliate myself.
But to be honest, it happens a maximum of a couple of times throughout his life. All the rest of the LII is soft and pliable people. In dealing with people, he refuses on principle to the pressure on them.
But for me, too, do not push!
The concept of "power" they almost always perceived as "violence." Paradoxically, the softer the request made to him by asking him difficult to refuse, but if feels pressure on yourself, can completely stop responding to any words and exhortations.
More LII difficult to defend their rights and interests, he has a weakened sense of ownership. If his right to ignore the people around them can so nothing to take to rectify the situation and protect themselves.
In severe cases, the LII can develop a kind of "victim complex" - a person who may be hurt by all and sundry, and that man for himself is not able to stand.
Leah often quite severe mood swings - from excitement to a dreary decline. He himself is largely dependent on its energy state, which is outside the control of his mind. We should also note that the warehouse of his character LII anticipating future negative points better than the glowing prospects. It's his property, too, does not give him joy and confidence.
Self-FRI, especially in youth, can not have fun. If on a holiday no one pays any attention to him and not trying to engage in the general merriment, can sit in a corner all evening.
And sitting - in discos!
He sincerely grateful to those who generously shares with him a real joy and festive mood.
I love to laugh, but it does not happen as often as we would like ...
Often he looks so much seems "cracker" or "blue-stocking" that people sincerely believe - and so it is. In dealing with it must be remembered that the LII of the dilemma "to be or seem" almost always chooses "to be" and rarely allows himself to "appear".
This, incidentally, explains his commitment to the unprepossessing appearance. If LII life itself forced to take care of his appearance, he is a pretty sad sight. Style, elegance, attractiveness - well, it's not important to him than the vast universe!
One of the LII does not agree with that? Come, please, to the mirror.
Nevertheless, the phrase "In the person all should be fine ..." belongs to the FRI. Basically, he wanted to look attractive, but he damn shame to waste their time and effort.
How do I know what I want?!
Quite helpless LII and organize their life. Of course, if it turns out that "this tiresome way of life" in the whole family will be on his shoulders, he will be able to satisfactorily establish it. However, this will be done at great cost of time and effort.And it can be very spoiled the mood. LII genuinely surprised to learn that there are people who are "in a rush" all the household chores.
In food it is unassuming, eats what will put on the table - if only the dishes were clean. Taste susceptibility him a little dulled, to assess which of the two courses is better, he needs to try them out at the same time - a taste of what was eating yesterday, she no longer remembers. It would be hard to define and answer the question: "What do you want for dinner tonight?" - Where is he to know that? And its view, delicious that he now eats or not, often is hearsay.
LII is not physically strong, awkward movements and awkward - a good athlete or dancer from it will not work.
And so want it all to be able to - to be graceful, strong, clever!
He tries to maintain order in their health simple ways - proper diet, exercise, avoiding excesses (by the way, other than LII prone to alcohol, smoking and especially to drugs, and even quite successfully combat these habits from their friends).
He likes a lot and fast walking - at that time he had better "cook" head. When the relative physical weakness has considerable stamina. If you play sports, it prefers not commanding views, and the individual.
Life - the only thing that was given to man
Usually LII quite a responsible attitude to their professional duties, for a career. In general, even for women FRI work as an opportunity to self-realization is more important than family. And if it is still present case, any of them can be almost no regret at all to give up their personal lives.
From LII difficult to wait for the praise, but if he says something of approval, then you really deserve it. And sometimes the criticism goes too far. But just as he demanded refers to himself: LII usually sets itself high moral bar, which is, incidentally, does not like to talk about. He does not like "learn to live" other people.
A person should educate himself.
In LII does not like to act in a pattern to be "formal performer" and can not do without the initiative. Young to him for that pretty much "hit." He also prefers to use your head, not your hands. It is easier to put forward an interesting and promising idea to outline a plan for its implementation, than to introduce it into practice.
The details can be inattentive, if, for example, to solve complex problems, can find an original and elegant way to solve it and make the stupid mistake of multiplying two-digit numbers.
Not very adventurous, commerce or personal business deals mainly with "other people's footsteps and in a rut," but always be sure to add something of their own. For all its concessions is hard-headed stubborn, when people begin to criticize his actions and efficiency.
I myself know what to do!
Calmly and constructively can only accept criticism in the form of light and friendly (as he understood it) hint. By the way, he likes to give other useful business tips, but never insist on their strict and mandatory execution.
My job is to offer your - cancel
Typically, LII will not give false advice or mislead the one who trusts him. This does not mean that he will never deceive people. Most often it is a lie - just self-defense, but to lie and that cause harm to another human being - a serious injury for a "decent" FRI. The best that it comes with a clear conscience, it does not give all the information.
But some things and hide it sometimes too hard. Vowing to someone to keep quiet, keep their word. (Unless you do not accidentally spill the beans.)
That's right.
Often, in his own words he, personally hostile to give him a weapon against the people themselves.
LII solves their problems so that, if possible, do not infringe upon the interests of others. In building relationships with people committed to implement the principle of mutual respect and always wants to deal with them fairly. I must say that the sense of justice of the FRI as a congenital. For all his rejection of violence can climb into a fight, if he sees a gross violation of justice.
It is not very "advanced" LII concept of justice is much the same with the concept of equality, whereby it tends to unify people, and this, of course, does not lead to anything good.
He does not like to make promises to the request can only say, "Well, I do not promise, but I will try." This may be a veiled rejection, and the internal decision to do everything in his power.
Almost does not know how to cheat, "diplomacy" for him synonymous with deceit and cunning mercenary. Complex knots of problems (especially ethical) tend not to start, and the hack, because of what often turns out to be a loser. Needless categorical in his words and actions, prefers to act fast and straightforward. Girl-FRI worthless first declaration of love (in the form of a statement of fact), and the other party is perceived as a blow to the head, "time - ready!"
"I write to you - what more?"
In his actions he subconsciously oriented to a constant and maximum time savings. In conversation tries (neosoznanno!) to be very concise. If one phrase can completely exhaust the theme of the five-minute story - will be very pleased with himself. When he speaks, he tries to put his words into a maximum of sense. (This is why in an important conversation, it is necessary to listen very carefully - not a single word of it will not be superfluous or random.)
Familiar mechanical movements of Lee is also very economical, accurate and very coordinated. In the kitchen, it can interfere with one hand salad, the other to get salt, and even close the door knee table.
Unfortunately, the second leg is usually not possible to use - so you can and fall.
Leah does everything calm and quiet, so associates notice how quickly it works only when it is clear that the hourly work done to them for twenty minutes.
In time trouble usually works better and more efficiently, lack of time will activate it. If at the right time can keep someone close to him to behave calmly and coolly, preventing any panic and helping his friend to do all or at least so the most important thing.
Time LII feels very good, although it is not recognized by him. Obviously not expecting too much, how long it will take, can keep up everywhere. Even if the meeting "accepted" late (such as a date) to be delayed for a couple of minutes.
He feels a deep inner responsibility for other people's time. This is evidenced even this fact: although the diction he usually is not very good, the question "what time" answers loudly, clearly and accurately.
Functional description of the
The first function: the logic of relations
Analytical mind. The ability to find all over the cause-effect relationship. Tendency to abstract systems thinking. The ability to separate the important from the unimportant. Theorizing, the propensity for intellectual work, construction of abstract models.
The second function: the intuition of possibilities
Understanding of the phenomena and events of the world. Create hypotheses about the laws of the universe. The desire to make life more meaningful, enriching it with new ideas. Avoiding senseless actions. Idealism, creativity, imagination, global thinking.
The third function: the ethics of relations
Formal compliance with the rules of conduct in dealing with people, to follow someone else's example. The desire to cultivate one's politeness and correctness. Very little understanding of the desires of others. Lack of confidence in the ethics of their actions. The attention to other people's experience of communication.
The fourth function: strong-willed sensory
The weakness of their own volition potential. Principled rejection of the impacts to other people and the total rejection of force action on itself. Own weakness that is very painful. Decreased sense of ownership. The desire to avoid situations that might willed pressure.
The fifth function: the ethics of emotions
Underestimation of the role of the emotional aspect in life. Inability to cope with their own negative emotions. Periodic blues, depression. The subconscious expectation of help from the outside. Thanks for the donated joy and good cheer.Insult to life in case of a lack of excitement and enjoyment. Foreign non-emotional, passive, emotional suggestibility.
The sixth function: sensory experiences
Low sensitivity. Weak ability to adjust their way of life. Waiting for help in the creation of comfort and coziness. Willingness to follow someone else's friendly advice. Unprepossessing appearance, difficulty with care.
The seventh function: the business logic
Subconscious desire to stay informed of their loved ones and friends. Willingness to help them in difficult situations, if they so request. Rejection in the address criticism when it comes to business and professionalism. High availability is not always leads to significant results. Stereotyped actions in business endeavors. High automaticity of movements.
Eighth function: the intuition of time
Good, but almost did not realize the sense of time. Foresight hazards standing in the way of other people, readiness in time to warn them about it. Subconscious desire to not let anyone down with time. Understanding the great value of time.Good memory, taking care of someone else's time, punctuality, accuracy.
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