Silk Heart
I - like a bunch of feelings. My body is woven only of sensations and emotions. This "lump" - hyperfine creation of nature. So I'm in a special and unique world - a world of pristine harmony. "Black" impulses, evil, hatred, destructive element - the categories that are alien to my world harmony. And this is not just a word - it's a state of mind. Excuse me, but the feelings or is, or is not, to lie, as it does sometimes mind, they do not know how.
I feel in myself inexhaustible need to give ourselves to others, "to sow reasonable, good and eternal." Madly in love is life in all its forms (I always'll be able to ignite, even in everyday situations ochazhok holiday comfort).
... I can not see, "feel". I can only feel - I'm invisible, I - harmony (on a subconscious level, of course). In communicating to appear sort of "shirt-guy." But this is only the outer shell. Even after the revelations almost impossible to feel the true state of my soul ...
Well, something like ...
Quiet, friendly, smiling, shy cutie with a soft, plastic grace. He takes pleasure simply from the fact that he lives. The multi-faceted luxury experiences, fine sensitivity to all external influences determine its relevance to their lives. If the normal chocolate is the richest source of gustatory pleasure, what more a man need in life: eat - and order! If a heavy precipitate out of trouble with a vengeance interrupted the joy of tickling breeze caressing the face, then why try to cope with these troubles ...
SEI is completely immersed in the reality of this world, constantly feeling it with all my heart. World he perceives as more chaotic mosaic of sounds, those visual images, strange conversations unpredictable people.
As for himself, most (and best) part of his life is busy with the perception of the five senses - sight, hearing, touch, taste, smell. But he does it in such a way that simply amazed! Even if it has weak sight (that is, in general, rarely) it sees more others.
I do not see - I see.
He sees and understands everything that gets in his field of vision. Scattered SEI - something out of science fiction. In order to hear, he does not have to listen. No matter by what he always keeps track of all the emerging sounds, or other changes in the environment - skvoznyachok, a pebble in the shoe, and the like. In any confusion in the room remembers where everything is.
But especially it is your own physical condition. Only a small EIS will say that he has a stomach ache. A few years later he learn to see the difference between pain due to indigestion and gastritis pain. When hungry, will know not only the degree of hunger, but also the fact that it was he would now like to eat and how much.
I always thought that the chips - this dish, but it turned out to garnish!
The food - it's all a special part of his life. It is capable of long, detail and describe a wide variety of taste, odor, and other nuances of the most common dishes such as sandwiches. In honor of chocolates can also compose an ode in high style.
His love for food SEI little embarrassed and did not want it to stick out.
Why would you think of me, I'm all for the sake of candy agree?
For one, maybe not, but a kilo's worth a try.
He has almost no strong preferences for food, but if something does not like - make him eat it almost impossible. Him from an early age can be given the freedom to question their own power supply. SEI will never forget to eat and will not lean on candy at the expense of soup. He always knows when to set aside a plate to avoid overeating. It can not learn to cook - he himself knows how to do it well. There are cases when representatives of this type by smell or appearance of food just saying what components it is not enough - for example, the salts.
In life SEI seeks and creates sensory harmony. Typing faster and easier than writing by hand. And if it is broken and missing on the letter "o"? You can, of course, replace it with a zero, and most would have done - but not the EIS. For him it is not harmonious and comfortable.
Convenient - it's nice when
Discomfort (in any form) for it hard to bear. In uncomfortable, uncomfortable situation of his mood drops. If he can not fix it, then tries to withdraw into themselves, immersed in some memories of "the good" and did not like being "pulled out" of them unpleasant reality.
The interior should be cozy and beautiful (for it is one and the same). In this respect he maximalist, any, even the smallest, a departure from its presentation brings harmony "with no" all the fun out of life. He does not like physical exhaustion, trying to avoid the conditions that require it stamina or health risk (EIS, to put it mildly, not very brave man).
According to him, life is different without good feeling poor. If he declines the sharpness of sensory perception, it is a sign of illness or nervous exhaustion. And God forbid him to say, "I already do not feel anything" - can not be a loud cry for help, otherwise it will be too late ...
And the EIA says the best thing he can do for the people - it's creating them pleasant and comfortable environment. He likes to take care of all others: to correct clothes, give a person where it is most convenient to sit down, draw the curtains when the sun hits someone in the eye. This is all done without a request, not for show - even involuntarily. For him, it is as natural as breathing (but if it is with gratitude notice will be only too happy). His foresight comes to what it can offer more water a person before he himself is aware of his thirst. This is another feature of it - see the subtle physical desires of other people.
It is best to SEI, perhaps, can not find a common language with their peers and with children. SEI of any gender and age next to them is affectionate and caring grandmother, who knows how delicate sprouts sprout their talents, and it is - the highest purpose of this type of people. No one better SEI will not be able to turn an ugly duckling into a beautiful swan.
Another of his talent - the ability to create around himself a joyful, pleasant, light mood. I must say that personally he himself occasionally have fits of longing different degrees of severity.
The mind is full of bright expectations
Heart feels new trouble
In these moments, he seeks to retire, "hide in its burrow," wait for the blues will pass. If there is no way to hide from the people, will be quite skillfully play "and I have everything in order." It's because he feels a deep inner prohibition: no one can spoil the mood. Even his close he says with great care about their problems, that in no case did not disappoint them. So sometimes happens: he amuses someone tells jokes, and he himself at this point in my soul cat scratch.
In case of trouble EIS can easily give up and quietly watch the approach of trouble, do not try to take. But it is mainly only if it applied only to him alone. If the problem threatens his friends, he can quite actively and successfully deal with it.However, the last of his property is also highly dependent on the level of spiritual development.
To live without straining
In order to do something, he needs the right mood. Long may wait for it to come, and then quickly things to do. SEI does not like to work for people who do not tolerate any interference in its work, as well as being criticized (and even when praised) his ability to work. He believes that the work should be viewed only by the result.
In matters of business, he is quite helpless. By and large, the concept of "benefit", "payment" for him immoral, and thought that to their advantage to use other people, it seems blasphemous. It comes down to what it can do a few hours to prepare a business phone call and eventually give up on the whole thing. He was greatly afraid of even the thought, as if people did not think he was being imposed.
His remarkable organizational and penetration capabilities EIS can open only when he is completely disinterested trying to do something useful for other people. But as soon as his little thoughts creep in your head, "What's in it for me?" Everything will collapse immediately. Personally about their interests should take care someone else.
Keeping to the shadows, but I'm happy when I find there
Who is he, what is and what is capable of - for SEI closely guarded secret. Therefore, it is very difficult to deal with his professional attitude. He can lose a lot of time, until one day it does not overshadow, "This is mine! And I had not noticed!"
Their opinions about their abilities in him, especially in his youth, no. What would he not have said so, and agrees. Will be called a fool - be upset, but believe me. They will say that he has exceptional mathematical abilities - like he had not noticed before, but it is something more visible. Praise he believes is still less than criticized.
Because of the almost total inability to realistically assess their creativity and inner essence of "problem" EIA at the same time characterized by two diametrically opposing views about themselves. The first, which is almost always around and shows can be summarized by the phrase "I can not find my place on this earth ...". The second, which is the opposite extreme, says the huge domestic wealth his sensitive soul, that other people have not able to properly assess.
However, it is (of course) the opinion carefully concealed from everyone, and can occasionally slip a hint.
A SEI desperately needs to tell him the truth about himself, not only for his talents and abilities, and the prospects for the internal maintenance of personal growth, about future life goals, but also about the "pitfalls" of his soul. Without such support the EIS will turn off and eventually come to naught.
Almost as important to him the same information about the people around him, about the nature and content of all the phenomena of this world, the usefulness and availability of a variety of initiatives. If we manage to interest him, to show the meaning of a case, he spared no effort to vigorously join in the work, not just coming up with original solutions, but also realizing new and emerging opportunities.
In order to act, he needs a real push sense
He is drawn to those who are able to constantly generate new and unusual ideas and scientific hypotheses and logically justify them. Here he shows omnivorous and uncritical, is able to instantly accept as true almost any statement, any theory - but not necessarily what will remain faithful and constant supporter of her.
The bottom line is that I can not find a point in life that drew me altogether entirely.
And any information about the people around him, need him almost like air. In all the conversations - personal or business - SEI gently and quietly try to pull out of the interlocutor everything he knows about someone (sometimes comes to the fact that natural reluctance interlocutor exhume another's "dirty laundry" EIA sees almost as a insult for himself, though outwardly it and do not tell).
He has tried and tested during the life of certain logical criteria to which all must conform. For example, in any game EIS strictly ensures that everything went according to the accepted rules. External consistency in the presentation of the material is so impressed that he sometimes abuses it. And then the second-graders from the pen is a classic phrase: "Cabbage is formed by folding the cabbage leaves around the stalk." It's his style - and complicate rounded design proposals at the expense of ease of understanding.
SEI feels like translucent and is trying to hide from prying eyes "of the system phrases," drawing about him odezhki others' ideas and thoughts. He lives with the constant feeling that people are often passed unnoticed by him - do not want to understand it and to listen to his opinion. If ingested by a grateful listener becomes verbose (sometimes nerdy), but even in this case, the EIC with internal dissatisfaction feels that his speech was somewhat bland and inexpressive.
I respect people in that from itself can not develop sufficiently, - the ability to thicken thought.
Therefore, in conversations always trying to remember someone else's 'smart' statements and gives them opportunity, then as if for their thoughts (such as plagiarism, which he sees in others, its annoying).
Think of other people's words is very convenient for them do not respond, if they prove to be incorrect.
However, he has a great emotional "hearing" the words: in the most common and become familiar phrase, he is able to see something original and can subtly beat him, suddenly giving it a funny sense.
Sometimes, if the EIS sincerely feel that they went around, but they do not want to openly and directly at odds with those whom they consider their enemies, they are carefully looking out for all of their "pain points" and then easily screw up the barbed stinger in their appearance as if a harmless joke.
SEI is constantly creating the impression of being "canny", even during the confidential conversation pursue their own hidden agendas. In fact it is not so - so it appears introverted immersion in his inner world. On the other hand - the impression which he skillfully creates about themselves in many things is very different from its real essence. For example, his famous charming smile - the most convenient way to safely "hide" themselves from the speaker. The more smiles SEI "without cause," the more he is not sincere.
Unsurpassed master of giving evasive answers to direct questions. If he is asked a question that did not find any other answer than "yes" or "no" - will still find a loophole. Sometimes it seems that the EIS organically unable to make the final choice, even in trifles.
Every solution is self-restraint.
To all the brilliant innovations and business prospects, he initially wary, the first reaction to them is almost always skeptical. He should be given time to ensure that his firm "no" itself has been changed to "yes." If this is not taken into account and begin to rush or pressure him, things will not: stubbornness he has enough for a dozen. He will not think about the possible consequences - there can at least count on the bellies of my head! He withdraws into himself and becomes impenetrable to any reasonable argument and persuasion. In this case it is best to give him an opportunity to soberly to weigh the situation.
The very same SEI skillfully convinces and persuades people. This helps his ability to understand their interests and desires, and the ability to show kindness to their address (apparently it looks so convincing that often causes interlocutors almost confessional candor, however, from the SEI hard to wait for this compassion). But ask or demand does not like, can only hint at his interlocutor difficulties.
Hint - please sensitive to smart
He does not like to be obligated to anyone. Very afraid that those whom he dislikes, may impose a close relationship. In this case, the EIS does not say it bluntly: "Get out of my sandbox." His style is to get rid of unwanted partner - it is subtly and unobtrusively arrange it such a life that he himself gladly run away from it. As a result, next to him are only the "thick-skinned."
Sometimes it seems that the EIS is much easier to tolerate almost complete mismatch of a loved one with his ideal than a small annoyance with him. This, incidentally, leads to the fact that the people of this type are more often associated with his life psychologically suitable partners.
And people SEI understands bad, could easily be mistaken, who he enemy, and who - a friend who you can trust, who can not, and who will do just to use it, because the causes of all the actions of others - unknowable mystery to him. But he also can not understand the reasons and their own actions, and this, in the end, leads to the fact that he sometimes feels totally responsible for everything he does.
At SEI is a real danger on the fault to lose true friends. It is easy to know how to endear himself, but from him often leave even those who loved him.
Cardboard wings of love
Russian literature is rich with interesting images of people of this type: it's Clim, and the famous master Oblomov, and forever "superfluous man" Eugene Onegin. And by different authors among the many complex issues raised one big question Search this hero's place in life.
My inner impulse erupts only when the next is a close and understanding man. After all, in itself I just bunch of feelings, passive energy.
In the soul lives SEI image of the ideal friend, a loved one with whom he could fully develop their spiritual wealth. He sometimes not consciously feel that only close to someone completely coincident with its ideal, it can live and work in all its force. But when he finally meets this, then stubbornly expects him to full compliance with the ideal. Any, even the most insignificant deviation from it his sensitive soul perceives as a betrayal of her lofty expectations. It turns out that it deprives him of the right to be loved yourself, requiring him that he has made all his hopes and desires.
Naturally, such a stubborn mood for a perfect harmony (and sometimes just for myself) destroys the existing one, but "insufficient" from his point of view, the harmony. The inner sense of self-righteousness ("Is it possible to back away from its own ideals?") Does not allow him to admit that he is partly responsible for this destruction. He truly confident in his sinless, does not seem to understand that by doing so knocks over all the blame on loved ones, and imposes liability only on the circumstances.
And whose fault is that the day-to-day
life care by a stranger?
SEI reluctance to accept the fact that there is no perfect harmony leads to the fact that out of his life virtually disappear any form, to the greatest extent approaching her. This is true not only of his personal life, but also creativity.
Each type has its own unique features, its "highlights" in the works, the possibilities of maximum expression. A sensory-ethical introvert - one of the few personality types, which is the best possible. The reason is its strongest feature - introverted sensing, which allows him to more fully perceive the realities of the world, the fullness of being. It feels like no other physical harmony of the world .
But for everything in this world has a price. Since it seems to me (and quite objectively) that is available to it all the harmony of the world, then it is easy to make a tiny step away from the feeling that he is harmony . And most of the people of this type, though unconsciously, is firmly convinced of this, as if they were self-critical in words.
Such self-esteem is very harmful to the EIS are often turning to his creative sterility: the creative process is the increment of harmony, and what kind of growth it may be a question if he feels boundless world harmony? As they say, let well enough alone.
And so it goes - what would now no matter what happens in life, no matter how developed its relationships with the people in case of any failure, it will be absolutely adamant that the blame lies on someone else, but not on it - because it itself perfection ...
The rich sensory EIS giving joy harmony can turn to him as a generous gift of good fortune and eternal boredom. After all, is not enough to feel the harmony - much more fun to build it up.
Functional description of the
The first function: sensory experiences
Subtle and multifaceted sense of the physical world. The richness of sensory perception. High sensitivity to all physical effects. Perfect work of the senses. Willingness and ability to surround himself and others coziness and comfort. The constant ability to perceive the beauty of the world. Developed taste, aesthetics, self-indulgence, a tendency to touch pleasures.
The second function: The Ethics of emotions
Emotional perception of the world. The desire for a positive and joyful emotions. Understanding the emotional states of others. The ability to create a festive mood. The desire to make the world a more joyful, to bring people pleasant moments. Unwillingness to spoil the mood of anyone. A sense of humor, smiling.
The third function: the intuition of time
The constant striving to develop in a sense of time, punctuality. The desire to learn to see the potential hazards. Demonstration of the ability to do all the time with incomplete certainty of their abilities. The desire to learn from other people's foresight. A good memory for dates, anticipation of possible trouble, sometimes the desire to get "out of the circle of events."
The fourth function: the business logic
Failure to understand how to achieve success in their actions. The lack of business acumen. The categorical refusal to use other people for their own business interests. The rejection of any criticism or praise for the way they performed any work. Reluctance to demonstrate the process of their work. Inability to count their steps. Work only in mood, other people's tips and tricks takes on a "luck conductor: buy a ticket - go on foot," immaturity and irresponsibility.
The fifth function: the intuition of possibilities
Willingness eagerly absorbing new ideas and hypotheses. Constant expectation that the people around him to help find the meaning of life. Love to all new and original. Lack of understanding of their abilities and nature of the phenomena of the world. Uncritical attitude to the ideas of others. Resentment for life if she is not full of meaning. A complex and often unsuccessful search for his place in life.
The sixth function: the logic of relations
The desire to make the world was organized more logically. Waiting for the right information from relatives. Decreased activity in the work, with its lack rationale. The lack of maneuverability in the analysis of the situation. Weak ability to separate the important from the unimportant. The desire to show off their analytical skills. Adherence to rules and regulations, the attention to detail.
The seventh function: strong-willed sensory
Internal stubborn, but passive desire to achieve. The presence of internal volitional capacity and the ability to use it if necessary. Do not always be aware of the desire to keep the strong will of other people. When the outer levity ability not to lose sight of the goal. Stubbornness, rejection of pressure from the outside, the ability not to succumb to it.
Eighth function: the ethics of relations
The constant smoothing of sharp corners in the process of communication between people, the ability to resolve conflicts and quarrels. Unconscious attention to other people's desires. Not declared, but is a clear demonstration of his friendly attitude and attention to the interests of the people. Willingness to compromise for the sake of peace and harmony, even if others do not do reciprocal steps in this direction. Consent to the words with all statements and partner with the desire to act only in their own way. Demonstration of sensitivity, the ability to "get into the soul," sometimes ostentatious love without real content.
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