I feel like this is a pretty important point to make.
And the warning I'm about to make applies not only to descriptions of duality, but to all relationship descriptions in general.
The difference between the beginning of a relationship and the end result of the relationship are very, very stark.
It takes time -- lots of time -- to have the relationship start resembling the relationship descriptions. The relationship descriptions imply that the partners are operating on very close psychological distance. Developing a close distance takes tremendous time.
Particularly with regards to Duality relations, the end state is something of a fairy-tale, but the development in the Duality relation I've had so far is extraordinarily difficult.
That's expected.
I cite the following paragraph: "In dual relationship corrected deficiencies that are felt acutely partner and immediately goes back reaction. This natural reaction "gets to the point," can certainly be painful, but stimulates the analysis of behavior to deep reflection and efficient corrective action. But such a process, however, takes time and tremendous effort, domestic work, soul-searching, analysis of our own actions and behavior of others is a heartache. Sometimes people may refuse from each other." (http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin/showthread.php/34095-Duality-relations-various-authors-(machine-trans))
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